Supporting a Partner with PTSD in Relationships

[Hazel]

Supporting a partner with PTSD requires patience, communication, and boundaries. Encourage professional help while offering emotional support. Learn their triggers to foster safety. How do you support a loved one with PTSD in your relationship?

 

[Fidelia]

If I have a partner that is suffering from PTSD, I would first of all try to understand the origin of that. And I would completely avoid that experience that caused that in the first place. I would provide reassurance and emotional support to to such a partner.

 

[Nomad]

I have been there. When my wife lost pregnancy, she was in a great stress. While it was also painful for me, I was able to convince myself that we can try again. However, she couldn't, and she started developing PTSD. Her symptoms were so severe that doctors even asked me to take her to mental health institution. I took a break from my work, I stayed with her, communicated about things she liked, frequently took her for walk, and it helped minimize her symptoms. PTSD was gone when we had out first baby. These days when I remind of her conditions, she laughs.

 

[Shortie]

As someone who has been in a mentally abusive relationship in the past, I know that it can be difficult for my current partner to deal with me, especially when I shut off and just want to be on my own.

I feel the best thing you can do with someone with PTSD is let them know that they are not on their own and that you are there; they at least then know they can talk to you when they are ready. Giving them the space they need when they need it helps a great deal.